I started out looking for a simple opposite for the word “urbanite.” Something that referred to people who did not live in urban areas, but who didn’t necessarily live on farms, either.
Hmm, searching “urbanite antonym” was not much help. Dictionary.com listed no antonym. Surely non-urbanite wasn’t the only viable word?
So I thought, “Ruralite?” and looked that up. Oops. The Urban Dictionary defines a ruralite as a “person who insists that they live in “the country” even thought they really just live in the suburbs or a satellite city. Usually in gated communities filled with 1/2 million dollar homes stacked right on top of one another. They typically drive the largest SUV’s and behave the most obnoxiously on their cell phones.”
That definitely wasn’t what I was going for!
How about “rural dweller?” Um, no. Online Slang Dictionary provides the following synonyms for rural dweller: hayseed, hick, hillbilly, redneck, yokel–and that’s only a sampling.
Seriously?
By this time my friend Margaret was onboard helping me search for this elusive word. She suggested “rustic.” If anything, this was even worse. As a noun, a rustic is a “person from the country, with little experience,” says Thesaurus.com. Synonyms include boors, peasants, provincials, backwoodspersons, and. . .farmers?
Where’s the respect?
I find this sobering. Roughly 80% of North Americans live in cities. If the only view they have of non-city-dwellers is that they are hillbillies, hicks, and yokels–with farmers lumped right in there equally–no wonder our food supply is in grave danger.
You think I’ve jumped to an unrelated conclusion? I don’t believe so. Growing food isn’t taken seriously. Farmers are uneducated and boorish? Get a grip on reality, City Folk!
Your food supply is at risk. Very at risk. Instead of looking at your country cousins as less than yourselves, as country mice, allow us a respectful definition.
Let’s go with ruralist. This is one who resides in a rural area and is an advocate of rural life. Plain and simple. Not condescending, not romanticizing.
I’m proud to be a ruralist and a farmer.
How powerful are words? What do you think?
Love your post. Now that we suburbanites have moved to the beautiful middle-of-nowhere country, (at least it’s somewhere people respond with “huh?” when we tell them where we live) we are enjoying learning all the wisdom from the farmers around us. We are the ones that don’t know much. And we love it.
Welcome to the life of a Ruralist 🙂
I like ’em. I’d be one if I could. Gettin’ too old, though. Need to be near folks.
Hey, rustic is what led to ruralist, and the opposite of country mice is city mice, but other than that, spot on. Words definitely have power, and the common terms associated with living outside the cities are overwhelmingly negative. Even many of the positive terms are tied to the concept of “going native” or “back to the land” as if it’s a regression.
I’m proud to assist in a tiny bit of suburban farmer, but no, I do not live in the rural areas. I don’t drive an SUV either :).
Yep, there were a few more steps to the conversation, but this seemed to sum it up! Thanks for hitting the search engines with me!
Blessed.
Me, too…
Fellow ruralist here who used to make fun of ruralists and then I became one. Yes, people need to have a paradigm shift here, because in America at least 85% are living off of what 15% produce. And the stats may be even higher than that (it’s been a while since I checked). I’m thankful for what you do, Valerie! And I’m learning!
Ruralists unite! Good to have you, Precarious! 🙂